Lifestyle Blogging??

I won’t even lie, there are days when I honestly wonder why I keep up this blog.

Then I remember that my mom reads my blog and loves me (thanks mom).

Lately, I’ve been slacking on my lifestyle blogging. I’ve been pretending to be somebody that I’m not and I want to apologize for it. A lot has taken place in the last few weeks in so many different aspects of my life; personally, professionally, and even blog related that has caused me to shut down and fall into a mundane routine of lackluster posts.

That’s not who I am and definitely who I do NOT want to be.

“Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn’t have the time to sit around and talk about you. What’s important to me is not others’ opinions of me, but what’s important to me is my opinion of myself.” -c. joybell c.

This quote resonates so deep with everything that has been going on in my life. Everything. While I joke with David that one day this blog is going to make me famous, that’s not what I seriously believe. This blog is my outlet to be who I am. If somebody stumbles across it and can relate – AWESOME; if not, I am sure they can find another little corner of the internet that will suit them just right.

I’m unpredictable and all over the place. I don’t seek fame or fortune. Sometimes I enjoy being a homebody. Dallas is my heart and soul, it’s the city that defines my very roots. You won’t get much fashion advice from me, but I do enjoy shopping for clothes. Sweats and sports bras are my name brand. I love a good party. Rivalry¬†runs deep in the Ware household, especially when it comes to football. Deep down, I like to believe that I’m a crafting maven. Cuddle time with my puppies makes me feel like somebody needs me and I’m thankful its not an actual human being. Let’s not forget to mention we’re homeowners now.

Along these last few months, I’ve turned into a person that I don’t really appreciate. A person who has been trying too hard to impress the wrong people. Ware is the Vodka is my testament to the sassy, jean-wearing, no bullshit, boot wearing, big afro diva that I am.

It’s about time I remember that…

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  • Reply Keva McNeal-David

    You got that right. You have always been a strong minded girl and sometimes I say that you should have been the daughter that carried my name. But we were blessed when your Dad and I had you. You were both our change of life baby and you have lived up to more than our expectations and believe me he is smiling down from heaven on you. Let those that talk about you keep talking. Tingy Wop you must keep doing you. Daddy and Mommy will always be proud of you.

    October 26, 2014 at 9:25 pm
  • Reply Eva Duplan

    Go you!
    You ARE fashionable, but you are ALSO an awesome person!! You keep being who you are, because you are fabulous and I’m happy to consider you the first friend I made in Dallas! <3

    October 26, 2014 at 11:50 pm
  • Reply Christina

    That quote is amazing! I must remember that because I am ALWAYS worried about what others think of me. If I overstep, said the right things, do I try too hard? Do people make fun of me? Ugh I need to stop! I love your confidence and it’s something I need to strive to obtain for myself.

    October 27, 2014 at 9:06 am
  • Reply Lindsay

    GO SEVI GO. You are strong and powerful and beautiful and amazing and I’m so glad to call you friend. Love you longtime.

    October 27, 2014 at 9:14 pm
  • Reply Addie

    This resonates with me so much. The blogosphere seems like a rat race if you’re sitting around looking at other people’s stats, and really if you’re doing anything besides being yourself. I’m guilty of the same. It’s great to realize it, though & grow from it. Love this post.

    November 21, 2014 at 5:55 pm
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